And the story goes on…
(And on - read about Tiny)
UPDATE, 24 July 2007: The story, as far as Clayton and Junior are concerned, is now ended. For more information, see their page in the In Memoriam section.
NOTE: I was going to re-write this
whole thing from scratch, but then I thought about it for a moment, and
realized: I had already written this
tale in email form – why reinvent the wheel?
Some of you who read this may have already received the emails I sent
out – you can just skip to the pictures if you want…
For those of you who have not read the story leading up to this one, I suggest you read the In Memoriam page, especially Rion's story before this one; otherwise, parts of this story make little or no sense... This page picks up with what happened within a few days of Rion's death, and describes an amazing sequence of events that helped save my sanity (what little sanity I ever had) when I needed a miracle.
In the process of touching base with several of our “old” Mastiff friends
(don’t get bent out of shape, guys and girls, I’m not calling anybody “old…”),
we asked around about possible rescue situations we might be able to help
with. Several of these folks looked
around, checking what leads they could find, and we got a couple of
possibilities, but nothing panned out – until Friday.
On that day, Tina faxed a filled-out application to one of our best
friends, who happens to be heavily involved in Mastiff Rescue here in
Clayton, relaxing around the house - glad to be an indoor dog again! |
Junior and Wes, exchanging a hug - instant therapy
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Lest anyone think it's all work and no play around here, we have quite a few moments of silliness and laughter, too:
And, most astonishing of all, one of them is Rion’s
SON! Those of you who know me best know
how Rion’s death tore my heart in half; coming
unexpectedly as it did, the shock on top of the grief was almost
unbearable. I still can’t believe he’s
gone… However, the photos I saw showed a
clear resemblance to Rion, and the description I got matched his character,
too. I was there when Junior was bred; I was there when he
was born; I was there when he was bottle-fed many a time (he was one of 11
puppies, and his dam did her best, but she needed some help…) I lost contact with those puppies as they
were sold, and had not heard from any of them in about 6 years. Now, all of a sudden, it looked like we might
be able to bring one of those precious pups home!
To make a long story short, we went to
I know it’s not all wine and song – there are many adjustments to be
made, and the boys have much to learn.
Things could still go wrong in a hundred ways, but with so many good
things happening so quickly, I have faith that all will be well. We still mourn the loss of our dear friends
and family members, but the pain is so much less… Those of you who have expressed understanding
and support for us, join us in our moment of joy, and pray with us that it
lasts many years to come.
This story is so amazing, and so opposite from what we have been through,
it will become a part of the website I started – check it again in a week or
two, and it will be there, along with better pictures and more substantial
experience. (NOTE: I just took a typing break and played with
the boys for a bit – the similarities between Rion and Junior are truly astonishing…)
After our first day together, I sat down Tuesday evening (March 16) and
typed up the following report. Most
everything I reported after 24 hours is still the same. The boys are fitting right into the family,
and we are still tickled pink to have them with us – I think I’m still in
shock.
Greetings to all! This is a report
on the first 24 hours we have had with our new family members, Junior (Rion’s son – I *still* can’t believe my luck, and God’s
generosity, in finding such a blessing in having him with us!) and Clayton. The family is adjusting to their presence
fairly well, with the exception of the over-exuberance Clayton shows – he has to
learn about the little ones. Our son
Joshua (4.5 years old, and usually very reserved about
Mastiffs) said this morning that the boys are “precious.” His word, not mine! Junior’s coming into our lives has done more
to heal my heart than I ever hoped, and I thank God for the blessing He has
bestowed. Nothing else could have caused
so many wonderful things to happen in so short a time!
The boys have done well today.
They have been in and out of the house, and when Tina and the kids were
not here, they were just fine. Junior
has stuck to us like glue, whenever he can.
I try to hog his attention when Tina is around, and neither she nor
Junior seem to mind.
Clayton did paw at Jessica this evening while she was in Tina’s arms. He left a pretty good mark across Jessica’s
chest and stomach. She hollered and cried
for a bit, and Tina sharply corrected Clayton. He was confused and upset by the crying – I’m
sure he didn’t intend to hurt Jess, but he has a lot to learn about the young’uns. We’re working
on it… I went outside and sat with the
boys on the top step of the deck – they were comical, trying to shove each
other out of the way for pets and hugs. Clayton finally decided he would show who was boss with a little humping,
which I did not allow. He pawed at me a
couple of times, leaving some marks on my arm.
Again, I am sure it was excitement and not any intent to harm. (NOTE:
He has improved a great deal over the last few days with the kids. We have to be careful, but he is doing
better. Now if I can only get him to
quit poking me…)
They have been getting lots of hugs (they both love hugs), petting and
even a fair amount of playing. I used to
grab Rion’s muzzle and gently pull it down toward his
chest – this is a favorite game for both of the boys, but again, Junior’s
reaction is very similar to Rion’s. I find myself using a lot of the old Rion
gestures, caresses, etc., and most of them work just as well with Junior. Clayton is a little more active (okay, a LOT more
active), but he loves affectionate gestures too.
The boys are both in very good general health. They are a little overwhelmed with all the stimuli they get here – birds, cats, other dogs, wide-open views over distance – but they love it. I caught them both bird-watching several times today, and the cats are a never-ending source of fascination. So far, they are respecting the fence just fine. I don’t think either of them will try to jump it. They are settling in pretty well now, and we are seeing more of their true characters – and they are TRUE characters!!! J Tina and I both think Clayton will be an excellent Obedience dog, if we can find the time to train him… He has a great attention span, and is very intelligent. I think Junior would benefit from Obedience training, too – he is also intelligent, and some additional Obedience work will help him be more confident.
NOTE: It's been almost a week now since the boys came to join us, and Junior has proven to be nothing short of amazing. I have been overwhelmed a few times by the loss of Rion - I guess that's to be expected, and will happen a few times yet - and Junior seems to know that I need him. I have held him in a hug and cried against his shoulder a few times now, and his gentle affection evokes bittersweet feelings - Rion would have done exactly the same thing, so it hurts; on the other hand, what I miss is what Junior is giving me, just as freely as his sire did... All things considered, given that nothing can bring Rion himself back, I am way ahead of where I would be without Junior's company...
March 29, 2004 - Photo update: The thumbnails below are from photos taken yesterday afternoon, in our own backyard. We got bluebonnets!
Clayton and Junior enjoying the flowers in the yard |
Heeere they come - slobber missile at the ready! |
One more picture, just for grins; a friend of mine pointed out the similarities between father and son in these photos. The ones above are of Junior and Clayton earlier this year, the bottom center is of Rion, taken in 1996. Can you see the similarities?
There is no doubt now. These two Mastiffs have found a home for the rest of their lives. May God grant that this will be many years from now...
Summer update, 19 July 2004 - the Boys are doing very well with us. They seem to be happy and well adjusted, and we are pretty much used to each other. The main reason I am adding another paragraph is to thank the Friends of Rescued Mastiffs (FORM) organization and the volunteers who made this miracle possible. You can visit them at http://www.mastiffrescue.org I hope that anybody who reads this who is interested in Mastiffs will do what he or she can to help with this effort - it saves not only dogs, but sometimes people as well.
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